婚姻不易,相守更难金句赏析

婚姻不易,相守更难金句赏析

婚姻不易,相守更难,“围在城里的人想逃出来,城外的人想冲进去”(钱钟书《围 城》)。细察爱情与婚姻的本质,电影导演李安说过,生活中很多是假的,反倒是戏里演的东西更见真相。从 爱情到错爱,从彷徨到选择,从期待到恐慌,从甜蜜到背叛,“除却巫山不是云”。阅尽千帆,洗尽铅华,寸心 不负。爱情不是战争,而是成长。浅笑佯嗔,总是承恩处。在《离婚不受伤》中,除了易轶律师深入浅出地剖 析了一些(或)发生在我们身边的真实案例,心理学者小米(李颖)又以简洁、睿智的语言诠释了解决两性或 婚姻关系问题的方法——走出“围城”绝非“鸡汤文”描述的那么“云淡风轻”。正如易轶律师所言,往者不可谏, 来者犹可追。无论你处于婚姻关系的哪个阶段、遇到哪些困惑,她之所以毫不保留地分享20年的执业经验,目 的是引导人们选择科学的方式守护婚姻(或挽救婚姻)。

Marriage is not easy, but staying together is even harder

Marriage is not easy, but staying together is even more difficult. "Those in the city want to escape, while those outside want to rush in" (Qian Zhongshu's Siege of the City). If you look closely at the nature of love and marriage, the film director Ang Lee once said that many things in life are fake, but the truth is more visible in the scenes. From love to wrong love, from hesitation to choice, from expectation to panic, from sweet to betrayal, "except the witch mountain is not a cloud". Read a thousand sails, clean, not an inch. Love is not war, but growth. Smile and smile, always gracing the place. In Divorce Doesn't Hurt, apart from lawyer Yi Yi's explainable analysis of some real cases that have happened around us, psychologist Mi (Li Ying) also uses concise and intelligent language to explain the way to solve the problems of sex or marriage -- getting out of the siege is not as easy as the "Chicken stock article" describes. As Yi Yi, a lawyer, said, those who go can't be remongedand those who come can still be pursued. No matter what stage of your relationship you're in or what you're confused about, she's sharing her 20 years of practice with the goal of guiding people to choose scientific ways to preserve (or save) their marriages.